The Dom The Protector The Disciplinarian The Guide The Nurturer The Safe Place The Dom may critique but never criticizes. To critique is...

From time to time every one of us feels insecure in our lives and in our relationships. Insecurity can manifest itself in many different...

The Freedom of Submission Much is written of submission on blogs and in chat rooms, and images abound of “submissive’s” and their...

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships A self-fulfilling prophecy is a strong idea or belief in something that comes true or takes...

How do I find a Daddy? A frequently asked question. How does one find a suitable partner? In this essay, I will attempt to give some...

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore The world is full of relationship advice, from magazines to the Internet to...

There is a popular BDSM meme that has been floating around for years, “A sub needs to feel wanted. A Dom wants to feel needed.” This...

The Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship 1. Giving and receiving unconditional love 2. Having a solid friendship 3. A...

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level In every relationship there are times where you feel ready to take things to the next...

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One” How will you know when you’ve found “The One”? What’s the difference between someone you really...

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship If you aren’t feeling fully satisfied in your relationship there’s a lot you can do to ensure...

1. Be wise in your choice of partner. We are attracted to others because of different things. For example, they compliment us constantly...

How To Be Present In Your Relationships We all have busy lives with lots going on at any given time, and it’s easy to get caught up in...

One of the most common questions I receive concerns how to locate suitable people with similar interests in D/s, BDSM and other adult...

Finding Love When You Least Expect It People love to tell single people, “You’ll find love when you’re not looking for it”. While this...

Factors That Make A Relationship Relationships are complex entities, made up of a number of factors that all need to come together to...

You’ve found the Little of your dreams – adorable, fun, bratty, silly, vulnerable, sweet, and most of all, she worships you as much as...

Through this guide, and all other BDSM related guides, I’m going to be extremely candid, honest and potentially vulgar, because I’m just...