A Beginner's Guide to Sexual Edging

This is simply a single edge.  If you’ve never edged before, hopefully this can help you get there and really feel what it’s like.  If you’ve edged before, then enjoy this simple, singular edge and enjoy your reward at the end.

- To start, it is preferable that you are undressed and in a comfortable position, either laying down or sitting in a relaxed position.  If you prefer clothing, then make allowances for touching your most sensitive areas for maximum effect.

Once you’re settled in for your session, simply begin to play, tease, stroke, toy, squeeze, and stimulate your pleasure spots, whether that is a dick, pussy, clit, breasts, or anywhere else.  Be gentle, slow, and soft with your touches.  Caress your body lightly, only just enough that you can barely feel it against your skin.  Do this for just a moment before increasing the pressure just a tad.  Then only another few moments, before repeating this process over and over until you are playing how it is you normally do so.  This process should take several minutes at least, and should serve to work you up plenty.  Continue to play with yourself for a few minutes, not more than five.  Then switch things up, changing how you’re touching, the pressure, the intensity.  Continue with this new pace for a few minutes, again not for more than five minutes. 

For those of you who are more sensitive, it is possible that this time so far has been enough to bring a sensation to your body.  It should feel like a building pressure in your lower stomach or navel, or like butterflies flitting around your stomach.  That sensation of an approaching orgasm.  If you aren’t quite there yet, that is fine, return to your normal play pattern and work yourself up until you begin to feel that lovely sensation as well.  Once you’re at that point, continue on with a little more intensity.  Let that sensation build up inside, feel it growing, letting it block out your surroundings, becoming the focus of your attention.  Before too long, it should begin to feel like this feeling can’t grow any more.  It will feel like a single second more of pleasure will have you cumming. 

This is your edge.  This is where you will spend more and more time, as you come to enjoy the sensation.  When you are experiencing this point of no return, that is when you hold back, slowing your stroking and playing or stopping entirely as necessary.  Relish that feeling.  Your body should quickly begin to fall back towards a middle ground of pleasure, or aroused but not all-consuming.  Take a moment longer to recognize these sensations of having edged and then come back down.  Once you feel that you have stabilized and your breathing has come under control again, tease, finger, or stroke yourself back up to that edge, noticing those new signals in your body, and then allow yourself to orgasm, full and wonderful.

(Edging is used to increase blood flow to the area and stimulate your senses. By getting you right to the edge this builds up and increases the quality of the orgasm.)

If you began to feel those lovely feelings and couldn’t stop in time, you may have orgasmed on accident.  That is okay.  You can begin again once you’ve cooled down completely and recovered from your orgasm.  While cooling down, try to recognize those signals so that you can respond more accurately the next time.  Then you will edge and experience that feeling.

Other things to try:

- Edge a few times within a single session, bring yourself to the edge of orgasm a few times then finish.

- Edge yourself throughout the day, find a few alone times and edge, allow yourself to orgasm right before bed.

- This one really takes self control, Edge yourself throughout the week and pick a day that you can orgasm on. Maybe edge Monday through Thursday and orgasm on Friday.

You can also use edging as a reward system. You can only edge but if you achieve your goal then allow yourself to orgasm.

Edging is used to learn more about your body and mind. Edging allows you to explore yourself and bring a better understanding of what you desire. Is also allows you to understand what areas of your body bring you more pleasure, this is very important when you are with a partner. You can the explain and guide your partner to the things that you like.

It takes practice, so what are you waiting for? Start making edging a part of your daily routine.

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