Ask a Million and One Questions

Questions followed by More Questions!!

If you are searching for a partner, especially one into BDSM - Ask questions, followed by more questions. And remember this word “bullshit".

I’m not speaking of: “hey what’s up or how old are you" friendly crap. I’m talking dig into the background of this person. Write a list before hand, note their answer. Ask the same question more than once - it should be same answer. You should never feel intimidated, Ever. You have every right to know these answers. If they claim it is Not important call “bullshit". If they degrade or call you crude names, call “bullshit".

Any qualified caring Master/Dom will have No problem answering these questions. Nor will they lower them self to a level that low of name calling. If, at any time, they become irritated and claim you are too pushy, good, you can call “bullshit". That means You are finding out the truth about them. That they are simply abusing the title Master/Dom.

Listed below are some questions. Ones I find very important and tend to weed out the assholes. Use Them! They are here for You.

What qualifies them as a Master/Dom (Domme). (You can learn a lot just from that) How long in the scene? How were they introduced to the lifestyle? Where did they get instruction/training from? How many previous partners? Why are you no longer an item?

Lastly: For the Love of High Heels - Do Not send any photos of you to them. If they say you’re not a good sub or you start to feel pressured by them to do so - call “Bullshit" and end it with “Fuck Off".