Communication Is Key

The biggest thing submissives need to remember is that you NEED to communicate whatever issues you have with your sir/daddy/master/Dom(me)/etc.

Because if you don’t, it’ll boil inside you for days. The smaller things will get you annoyed. And it’ll build up till you burst & end up regretting things.

A big thing in my book these days is talking things out. Voicing things that bother you or what you're concerned with. Even if they are small issues, voice them instead of letting them sit in your mind pretending they don’t exist.

The positives:

They knows how you feel now. Make sure to keep it civil and no yelling should be involved. Set yourself free and the weight will lifted off your shoulders. If they care about you and what you have together you'll start to see small changes. We can't fix what we don't know. What the sub voices gives the Dom the guidelines they can work in. So setting the boundaries and communicating those is very important.

The negatives: none so far.

If you voice your opinions to your Dom(me) & they get pissed without even trying to understand where you’re coming from, maybe they’re not the right fit for you… Dominants need to be patient. But also, Submissives need to be willing to push through their fears. It’s a give and take either way.

Ps. When you are talking to your Dom(me) about your issues, don’t be rude. Be mature & think before you speak. Imagine how your dominant feels after being thrown information that you are having “issues.” So really think about what you wanna say before you say it.