9 Easy Steps to make Her Squirt
- Awestricken1

- Nov 18, 2018
- 3 min read
Updated: Nov 22, 2018

Isn't making her squirt just one of those old myths? Might as well be talking unicorns. Well, no, actually Female ejaculation is a legit real thing, and not as elusive and mysterious as people like to make out. Here's how to make her squirt, or how to squirt yourself if you are the vagina beholder. Just a Heads up also this ejacuate isn't pee either
Here are some steps that can be taken to increase your chances.
Key steps the golden rules
● Take your time
● Locate and stimulate your G-spot
● Be patient and have no expectations
A step-by-step guide
1. Set the scene
2. Make yourself comfortable and get rid of all the tension in your body.
3. Make sure you find a private area that you won't be disturbed for awhile.
4. Allow plenty of time, this can take awhile, DON'T rush it.
5. You may also want to “waterproof” the area by laying several towels under you.
6. Find your G-spot:
- It's inside the top of the vagina if she is lying on her back, 0.5 to 2 inches from the entrance, on the vaginal wall towards the stomach.
- It's the only surface inside the vagina its like a pad or the top of your mouth. It's the only part inside the vagina that doesn't feel smooth. It feels like the surface of a golf ball, or the skin of an orange.
- Take time to get a full view of the vulva. Sit on the floor, knees bent with a mirror between your legs. Open your upper labia if necessary, push your pelvic muscle and you may see the “golf ball” surface towards the entrance of the vagina.
-If her G-spot is too high to be seen this way, you can use a see-through speculum, ensuring you turn it 90 degrees in order to have the two penetrative parts towards your legs, leaving the G-spot speculum-free.

Now that you know how to locate the G Spot get ready for the fun next steps...
7. Gently and slowly stimulate
- Remember takes time and is not a race, so take your time and explore with no expectation.
- Use lots of lubricant to make sure the sensation will be pleasant. As well as feeling wayyyy better, this will also reduce the risk of soreness or injury. Go for a water-based lube (as silicone lubes may be longer-lasting, but they can't be used with all condoms and silicone toys). Natural lubes are the best, like Sliquid's range, because they don't contain harmful potential irritants and many are vegan, too.
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Then, stimulate your G-spot with your fingers or a curved sex toy that has the perfect angle to intuitively reach your G-spot. Using a G-spot vibrator makes the area easier to reach, and stimulate.
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- As your G-spot gets stimulated and arousal increases, the erectile tissue will fill with blood. The G-spot and the labia will become larger.
- Parts of the G-spot may feel sore, so stimulate the sore parts gently.
If that doesn't work for you, there are a variety of sex toys you can try that might fit your body and anatomy better - here's four of the best G Spot sex toys:
8. Don't Hold Back, Relax and Listen to your Body
- Understand what your body is telling you and be aware not to over do it.
- For most people, ejaculation can only take place once the vulva and G-spot have filled with blood, and therefore, increased in size.
- Because the squirting comes out of the urethra, it most likely will make you feel like you have to pee. Once you get this feeling let go and enjoy it.
Feeling like you need to urinate is a good sign
- If the vulva has increased in size, you may wish to “push” while relaxing. Pushing and relaxing at the same time sounds a little tricky, but the liquid may or may not flow out, hence the potential need to push … and because the initial sensation will be similar to urinating, you need to be sufficiently relaxed to let it happen.
- Some people only ejaculate when the G-spot is being stimulated (ie: with some penetration), for others, it's the opposite and takes place when the vagina is free of all penetration.
9. If you're with a penis-having partner, or using a strap-on, try cowgirl or doggy style positions
- Cowgirl - allows you to be in complete control over both body and sensation, making it easier to feel your way to your G-spot.
- Doggy style means your partner can apply pressure on the frontal vagina lining.
Remember, it may happen on your first attempt or it may take a few years… The most import thing is to be at ease with your body.











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