Good rules for littles and middles to live by

(1.) Always ask Daddy’s permission. If you don’t, you’re only asking for what’s coming to you.

(2.) Present yourself in a way that will honorable to your Daddy and yourself at all times. You’re his Princess, babygirl, and pride and joy, always behave in a way around others that will honor him and those you’re around, or even on your own. (If you’re nasty and hostile to others, it reflects on your partner in almost any relationship.)

(3.) Babygirls do not bully, harm, chastise, or make others feel belittled. If someone is out of line, it’s a Daddy’s place to deal with the situation, or guide their babygirl in the right direction to handling it on their own. (If you’re independent of Daddy’s guidance, bullying is never nice, no matter what your stance.)

(4.) Communicate your wants and your needs to your Daddy clearly. Daddy is your caregiver, support system, and guidance - not a mind reader. Always let your Daddy know what you want, need, and require to be comfortable.

(5.) Be your own babygirl. There’s no label as to what defines a babygirl, especially what we like and dislike. You may represent your babygirl pride with blue, green and tonka trucks. You may prefer Star Wars over My Little Pony, or Blue’s Clues over Hello Kitty. What ever is representative of yourself, have fun with it! (Or listen to loud records, smoke cigarettes, or misbehave. Babygirls express themselves in many different ways.)

(6.) Don’t provoke Daddy purposely. Don’t act bratty simply to be bratty. Whether you feel little or are just your Daddy’s babygirl, Chances are, Daddy has his hands full already and if you’re just seeking discipline, being bratty or whiny isn’t going to make it any easier to figure out what you’d like. If your Daddy encourages your brattiness, relish in it, but don’t push him too far.

(7.) Remember to give back to your Daddy. It can be a grueling task to be a babygirls world, and just us bg’s breathing can be enough some days - and others, Daddies need their own special kind of care. Don’t forget to always be there for him in the best way you know how.

(8.) Don’t judge your peers - “Judgey wudgey was a bear.” We all have different dynamics and ways to practice our relationships, but we’re all also united in the fact that we have a special person is our life that we call Daddy. That’s a beautiful, special thing. We can’t be perfect and we all judge, but also keep in mind that everyone’s dynamic is special to them in its own right.

(9.) Respect other Daddies, and your elders for that matter, if they’re worthy and have earned your trust. Their rules are not yours to follow, but those deserving of your respect should never cease to get it.

(10.) Stay out of trouble to the best of your ability. This also helps you to avoid spankings, time-outs, or even sometimes gains you a reward or two, or just Daddy’s ever-appreciated “Good girl.”

(11.) Steer clear of emotionally abusive or hurtful Daddies. Not everyone is worthy of trust and the title. If you start to feel hurt, mistreated, or abused in any relationship, you should always let someone know. Reach out for support. This is a special kind of relationship that some can easily take advantage of.

(12.) Love your Daddy with all your babygirl heart.

Follow these rules, but more specifically, your Daddy’s rules. These are lucrative rules that I believe to be forever true unless your specific relationship wills it not so. (The list will probably grow considerably.)

Credit to FetLife.com