Online Aftercare

So, a lot of people seem to forget that aftercare is important in online scenes, too. It’s important to make sure that you don’t immediately log out after a session online - the emotions can be running high even after you have played together online.

Here are some of the things that have worked for me in the past when I needed aftercare in an online relationship. 

I’ve talked to subs in a soft, gentle voice afterwards. Gave them compliments, and they would tell me how much they enjoyed themselves. I’ve even sang or read to to them afterwards, just because it would make them smile and lull them to sleep. I would also suggest them to take a long shower afterwards, and then to rub their whole body in lotion. Then, get back to bed, and then I would talk to them until they fell asleep. I have also read funny things to my subs that I found online after we did our thing. It was a bit different, but it definitely helped to bring them down. Laughter can help bring up the chemical levels to prevent the Subdrop.

Basically, my point is, there are tons of ways to give someone the care that they need after you’ve played together online. Don’t be lazy. Don’t play if you don’t have time for aftercare afterwards. 

Take the time to bring your submissive down from her emotional highs. It’s part of your duty as a Dominant.