Signs of a fake 'Dom'

• Controlling behavior due to fear of losing their partner.

• Isolating the submissive from family and friendsDiscouraging self sufficient behavior

• Not allowing any social interaction which does not include the dominant

• Out of control jealousy

• Explosive temper

• Behaves like a spoiled child when not getting his/her way

• Abuses drugs/alcohol

• Does not take responsibility for mistakes

• Uses unhealthy behavior to gain control over the submissive

• Emotional blackmail. Example: Keeping the submissive in a constant state of fear that the relationship will end if they don’t get their way.

• Emotional Withdrawal. Example: Using the “silent treatment” or physically withdrawing and cutting off all contact rather than communicating and taking responsibility for the situation.Withdrawal of affection.