What Is A Daddy Dom Mentor?

In BDSM, mentorships can mean a lot of things to a lot of people. It can involve consensual sexual slavery to someone online that you infrequently bounce ideas off of, and everything in between.

For me, it is a bit different.

There are three important duties I perform for the subs I mentor:

• Therapist

• Teacher

• Guide

Mentorships are never sexual for me. It kinda gives me a case of the squicks. The boundary between student and teacher should remain asexual even though the conversation and instruction are mostly sexual in nature.

It usually involves hours on instagram and my website helping the sub with her daily issues (if any) and building up her confidence. But it does have a dual role however. As we build up a foundation of trust, the sub becomes my confidant as much as I am one for them.

In the end, the sub has a much higher level of confidence in herself, strong in her gift of submission, and no longer an easy target for abusive people pretending to be Doms.