When Newbie Subs Should Run Away

If a “dom” wants to be YOUR dominant and refuses to give you his real name, phone number (cell, home and work), home address, AND MARITAL STATUS, run away.

If you are sick and your “dom” won’t let you recuperate in your bed, run away.

• If you are with a “dom that trains” and he tells you he prefers a girl without hard limits because “they are a sign of weakness,” run away.

• If a “dom” violates your safe word, run away.

• If a “dom” accepts your submission on the first date, run away.

• If a “dom” punishes you for being depressed or having some other mental illness, run away.

• If you catch your “dom” lying or cheating on you, run away.

• If your “dom” refuses to speak with you or isolates you as a punishment method, run away.

• If a “dom” refuses to participate in aftercare when needed, run away.

• If you would not trust your “dom” with your life without ANY reservations, run away.

• If your “dom” uses a hard limit as punishment, run away.
  

• If your “dom” wants you to be used by countless others against your will, run away.

• If your “dom” doesn’t let you contact your friends or family, run away.

• If your ‘dom’ doesn’t want to be seen in public with you, run away.

• If you must call your “dom” Master/daddy on the first date or meeting, run away.

• If your “dom” refuses you a safe call and wants your meeting to be kept a secret, run away.

• If your “dom” doesn’t ask you what your limits are, both soft and hard, run away.

• If your “dom” punishes you for using your safe word, run away.

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