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Daddy Doms and their little girls Done

There is a lot of controversy and misconception surrounding this particular type of D/s relationship and to be honest, I, myself, was one...

Concept of Daddy/Little Girl Relationships

Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dominant. His choice is to be a Daddy Dom, this does not mean incest (as has...

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

I have often been asked to write about Collars and Collaring but have been reluctant to do so because I have strong personal views about...

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

The thing about BDSM is D/s is that control is always equal in both parties. How, you say? Let me explain. Dominants: Take care of the...

50 Best Ways To Say "I Love You"*

Whisper it lovingly as you fall asleep Show it by loving with everything you have Tell them in another language Show it with tenderness...

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

1- All successful relationships require some work. – They don’t just happen, or maintain themselves. They exist and thrive when the...

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

The Constant Victim - This kind of individual will always finds a way to end up as a victim in their relationships. One-Upmanship Expert...

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Top Communication Mistakes No one is a perfect communicator, especially when our emotions are involved. It’s easy to say the wrong...

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Often when people feel unloveable, it is tied into one of the following reasons: 1. As a child, a parent or authority figure either told...

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

1. Join a support group. Maintaining a strong support network can be very beneficial. There are different 12-step groups for family...

Steps For Letting Go Of Painful Memories

Experiences can leave us with some painful memories. They tie us to the past and prevent us moving on. And the only way to freedom is to...

Meditation and Mindfulness

Meditation is a mindfulness practice that allows you to “let go” and be present in the moment. In the fast-paced world that we live in,...

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

One of the things that motivates to live is love. The other is actually hate. You get to a point in life where you hate the world and the...

Is BDSM normal?

I was asked by a follower “if BDSM was Normal or not”. Well, that depends on what your definition of ‘Normal’ is. Normal is defined as...

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

1. Make a list of everything you’re thankful for – and try to find some memories that make you smile. There’s nothing like some humour...

Body image & BDSM

Body image. It is something that we rarely talk about in the scene and yet, so many of us struggle with it. Are you someone who hesitates...

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