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Dominants Need Training Also

A Dominant is a person with a dominant aspect in their personality who needs and chooses to expand on that dominance through a consensual...

Guide to Consent

Consent is one of the biggest themes of BDSM—if you don’t know that, you really need to read up before you pick up a paddle. BDSM is...

CONSENT and BDSM: The State of the Law

CONSENT and BDSM: The State of the (US) Law BDSM activity, even where clearly consensual, can be and frequently is prosecuted under state...

Communication Is Key

The biggest thing submissives need to remember is that you NEED to communicate whatever issues you have with your...

Online Aftercare

So, a lot of people seem to forget that aftercare is important in online scenes, too. It’s important to make sure that you don’t...

Subdrop and Aftercare

I thought I would write a little and provide some useful information about subdrop and aftercare, since I have just had to help a close...

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

After every scene, it is always good to have a small assortment of stuff on hand to lessen the impact of sub drop. Good things to put...

Subspace and Aftercare

The subspace and aftercare are topics that many kinksters are unaware of. To ensure everyone is safe and happy, however, Dommes need to...

Dom Drop

A common conversation in BDSM circles is sub drop but rarely, if ever, is Dom drop discussed. It is a real thing and does happen! We...

Aftercare 101

It came to my attention that quite a few fans and followers would love to know about how they could take care of their submissive, after...

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