Never underestimate the power of a hug. They’re like magical bandaids with arms…that don’t hurt when you pull them off (ie. stop...

1. If she can’t sleep, a bedtime story is needed. If she CAN sleep..well a bedtime story is still always appreciated 2. When it’s time to...

With regard to pronouns in this post, I’m using girl=sub, boy=Dom. That does not reflect prejudice or gender bias. I love people who love...

You’ve thought about it, you’ve fantasized about it, and you’ve decided that it’s for you. All well and good. Now to take the theory into...

Continuing on from a recent post ‘how to be a Daddy’ in a DDLG - D/s relationship. I feel a lot of the ‘Daddy’ dynamic will be, or...

I hear of many D/s dynamics breaking down because the Dom doesn’t recognize the times when its more important to just be a man to their...

There are lots of posts out there about how to find a Dom/Daddy/Sir/Master/Mistress etc but there are not many out there on how to find a...

First of all, there is an abhorrent misconception circulating in the D/s community that a Dom should not go down on his sub because it...

Practice with the ben wa balls for a certain amount of time Take a picture of something specific and text it (such as the time you asked...

So…. I get asked this question often and I tend to avoid it or use a definition written by someone else because other people always seem...

The following was written by me as an answer to a question I received.  Several have requested I post it as a regular post.  So here it...

So here’s a short list of ways I see myself asserting control in a Dom/sub kind of relationship with my Past Lady Subs9/ (in an ideal...

I have been asked multiple times to please do a list of female titles to replace Mistress or Mommy. The first most important note is that...

There are all kinds of Daddyish names that can be used beyond the common Master, or Sir, here are just a few… Appa (Korean for...

One of the main factors for subs or slaves in feeling truly Owned, is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of their Master’s...

Help her tie her shoes Wash her hair for her Caress her often Brush her hair with detangler Pick out cute clothes for her Pick out cute...

1. Attention give it to her daily, even a quick thinking of you 2. Be her first, regardless of how experienced she is be her first in...

The Basic 5 1. Touch her waist. 2. Actually talk to her. 3. Share secrets with her. 4. Give her your jacket. 5. Kiss her slowly. Are you...

1. Be gentle to the fairer sex, it’s in the name. 2. Dress well no matter the occasion. 3. Pride is dangerous, be careful. 4. Be humble,...

Definition of Terms Since one should never assume that everyone knows the same words and meanings when reading or writing, the following...