The best way I’ve heard submission described was at M/s. Submission is not following your Master. It is preceding him, clearing the path,...

1.  Assume that they are always looking for an excuse to punish you.  Never, for example, accidentally eat their cheese sandwich. 2.  If...

Although each submissive has their own personality, quirks, flaws and merits, each will usually fit into one of the following seven...

For a submissive female, finding an appropriate dominant partner is something that should be approached with a great deal of thought....

Use smooth, steady, slow rhythmic licks. Slow and steady wins the race I am new to this whole oral sex thing. My husband decided to eat...

I have spent some time discussing with others in the lifestyle what makes a good dominant. What marks a true dominant from a player or...

In BDSM, mentorships can mean a lot of things to a lot of people. It can involve consensual sexual slavery to someone online that you...

A Daddy is a title given to the dominant partner within a dominant/submissive relationship. They are similar to that of Master, both are...

Never underestimate the power of a hug. They’re like magical bandaids with arms…that don’t hurt when you pull them off (ie. stop...

1. If she can’t sleep, a bedtime story is needed. If she CAN sleep..well a bedtime story is still always appreciated 2. When it’s time to...

With regard to pronouns in this post, I’m using girl=sub, boy=Dom. That does not reflect prejudice or gender bias. I love people who love...

You’ve thought about it, you’ve fantasized about it, and you’ve decided that it’s for you. All well and good. Now to take the theory into...

There are lots of posts out there about how to find a Dom/Daddy/Sir/Master/Mistress etc but there are not many out there on how to find a...

First of all, there is an abhorrent misconception circulating in the D/s community that a Dom should not go down on his sub because it...

Practice with the ben wa balls for a certain amount of time Take a picture of something specific and text it (such as the time you asked...

So…. I get asked this question often and I tend to avoid it or use a definition written by someone else because other people always seem...

The following was written by me as an answer to a question I received.  Several have requested I post it as a regular post.  So here it...

So here’s a short list of ways I see myself asserting control in a Dom/sub kind of relationship with my Past Lady Subs9/ (in an ideal...

I have been asked multiple times to please do a list of female titles to replace Mistress or Mommy. The first most important note is that...

There are all kinds of Daddyish names that can be used beyond the common Master, or Sir, here are just a few… Appa (Korean for...