Experiences can leave us with some painful memories. They tie us to the past and prevent us moving on. And the only way to freedom is to...

One of the things that motivates to live is love. The other is actually hate. You get to a point in life where you hate the world and the...

Popular culture makes lots of jokes about boys and men asking if their penis size or shape is normal, but no mention is made of girls and...

1. Make a list of everything you’re thankful for – and try to find some memories that make you smile. There’s nothing like some humour...

Body image. It is something that we rarely talk about in the scene and yet, so many of us struggle with it. Are you someone who hesitates...

I’ve been asked many times to give my opinion or offer advice on how to negotiate a long distance Dominant/submissive relationship. I’ve...

It’s something that I finally realized as a major problem Long distance relationship couples (LDR) face as “discrimination” from the...

Long distance relationships pose their own unique set of challenges and test one’s ability to form a close relationship. They are not for...

Communication is Key Phone calls and video chat apps such as Skype and the iPhone’s FaceTime are key to maintaining healthy long distance...

1. Make the effort to stay in touch – Text, call or skype every day, if you can. It’s important to be part of each other’s daily life....

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship Long distance is tough, there’s no doubt about it. But it can be made less painful with...

You have chosen the role of a submissive, choosing to surrender yourself to a Dominant, giving yourself and all you are to that Person...

If a “dom” wants to be YOUR dominant and refuses to give you his real name, phone number (cell, home and work), home address, AND MARITAL...

"Get over here now.""Mmmmm Princess, I love the way you smell." "What’s wrong Babygirl?""You are so beautiful Princess" "Its okay little...

Within this lifestyle there are unfortunately many dangers, there are people out there using the BDSM lifestyle as a way to abuse or use...

Controlling behavior due to fear of losing their partner. Isolating the submissive from family and friendsDiscouraging self sufficient...

Sing “hit me baby one more time” during a spanking. Squirt lube/squirty cream in his face and tell him I’m into ‘giving’ facials. Hide...

"Recently I had a new friend ask me, in a frustrated moment, "How do you take care of a Dom?!?" I was struck by the question. I realized...

It’s a commonly asked question and I’ve answered it several times but I felt this time making a more thorough response through a post...

DISCLAIMER: Many Dom’s will probably not like this blog. They will write me off as “jaded” or “one sided”. “CRY ME A RIVER”, this is not...