I’ve been asked many times to give my opinion or offer advice on how to negotiate a long distance Dominant/submissive relationship. I’ve...

It’s something that I finally realized as a major problem Long distance relationship couples (LDR) face as “discrimination” from the...

Long distance relationships pose their own unique set of challenges and test one’s ability to form a close relationship. They are not for...

Communication is Key Phone calls and video chat apps such as Skype and the iPhone’s FaceTime are key to maintaining healthy long distance...

1. Make the effort to stay in touch – Text, call or skype every day, if you can. It’s important to be part of each other’s daily life....

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship Long distance is tough, there’s no doubt about it. But it can be made less painful with...

You have chosen the role of a submissive, choosing to surrender yourself to a Dominant, giving yourself and all you are to that Person...

If a “dom” wants to be YOUR dominant and refuses to give you his real name, phone number (cell, home and work), home address, AND MARITAL...

"Get over here now.""Mmmmm Princess, I love the way you smell." "What’s wrong Babygirl?""You are so beautiful Princess" "Its okay little...

Within this lifestyle there are unfortunately many dangers, there are people out there using the BDSM lifestyle as a way to abuse or use...

Controlling behavior due to fear of losing their partner. Isolating the submissive from family and friendsDiscouraging self sufficient...

Sing “hit me baby one more time” during a spanking. Squirt lube/squirty cream in his face and tell him I’m into ‘giving’ facials. Hide...

"Recently I had a new friend ask me, in a frustrated moment, "How do you take care of a Dom?!?" I was struck by the question. I realized...

It’s a commonly asked question and I’ve answered it several times but I felt this time making a more thorough response through a post...

DISCLAIMER: Many Dom’s will probably not like this blog. They will write me off as “jaded” or “one sided”. “CRY ME A RIVER”, this is not...

(1.) Always ask Daddy’s permission. If you don’t, you’re only asking for what’s coming to you. (2.) Present yourself in a way that will...

So you have finally come to the realization that you are either Dominant or submissive, or at least that you are interested enough in...

A lot of people seem to be kind of “grossed out" by the thought. There’s definitely a taboo around calling your partner Daddy. If you’re...

Awhile ago someone asked me what I thought the characteristics of a good Daddy were and I didn’t answer at the time, so I’m going to...

1.  Daddies may seem stalwart and invincible but often in the pursuit of providing for our Little Ones we need to be reminded to sit...